She has dementia/Alzhiemer's. I just lost my mother and daddy 2 years ago. (7 wks. apart) I am still having a hard time dealing with this loss and feel lots of guilt because of the circumstances that I was in (not being able to be there for my mom). I have had some health issues but am now greatly improving. I love my husband but just am having a hard time with this one. He has a sister that is struggling with taking care of her mom by herself. We live 8 hours from them but try to visit every 1 to 2 months which is difficult on us. I just want to do the right thing as a wife and Christian, but this is emotionally difficult.