If I sit there and debate with him about his care, it seems like he is not intending on doing whatever it is, and it frustrates me. So, I don't talk about itCause I see this happen. I know he is trying and I am finding ways to not get upset. So, I manage his medicine, but I cannot force him to do his breathing treatments. I talkabout it sometimes as a reminder. He doesn't bathe, so I sometimes will help him clean up a little. I watch his skin and somtimes we will both go and get a pedicure. This next month we both will get one. That is a way of relaxing for me, plus he gets good care for his feet. They do a great job.