Help! For 8 yr., I have lived in my father's home. Over time, as my father aged and deteriorated, I've assumed more and more responsibilities, isolating myself as Dad becomes more demanding and has angry verbal outbursts which can't be ignored or forgotten, "No one can stand you or wants to be around you, even your son." (My son's 32 and married with a full time job and friends so I rarely hear from him, but he swears this is not true.) Dad's now 96, still drives, Though he's pretty deaf and walks with a cane, he's a decent driver in the morning when he's fresh... but it's the other people on the road who are crazy here in the Orlando area. The car is in both our names though the original down payment came from the sale of his old car. I came here sickly but got disability and gave him nearly all my settlement to repay him for his help and contribute all but a few $100 towards the household expenses (so I have only a few hundred in savings), while dad also contributes nearly $1000 a month plus draws on his dwindling reverse mortgage. Without a miracle, Dad will be forced to sell the house in a few months. Since I have managed the household expenses, maintenance and all necessary purchases, we have credit card debt (which he does not want to know about but realizes that there is a balance on the cards). He promised that once the house is sold, he would pay for my move & 3 mo. rent, but that is only an option if I can find a golden girls type house arrangement. My question is, How do I get my dad to sign an agreement stipulating all this, Because I am fearful he will go ballistic over the stress of the move and sale. He has frequent outbursts and I'm always to blame. Sympathy even though I have debilitating anxiety and depression, is reserved for my sister, and has a 19 yr. old son and money to spare. I am not jealous, but I'm sure my father expects me to do all of the preparation. Because I have moved many times over last 20 years (job related), I know this would be far too much work for me to do on my own. (I know some individuals and groups who might do a trade out or be paid after closing). No matter how much for how little I do, I'm 100% certain my dad will alternately become extremely angry with me and unless I have a written agreement assuring me that he will honor the agreement for relocation and turn the car over to me. Even know his doctor says he can still drive now, he will not be driving in a few months. I've read all the articles, And If dad does not agree took keep his promise and surrender the car to me which is half mine, then I will be forced to contact the police anonymously about his driving. We have already looked into Uber and other transportation. My sister & I can drive him to most Appt. I live in a constant state of dread, anticipating the inevitable conflict and possibility that dad may totally cut me off from his life, as my sister can be very malicious and jealous. Most of the time, My dad and I get along great. His neediness and short temper plus his derisive remarks about me to visitors, like home healthcare givers and neighbors has crushed my spirit. I have an emotional support dog which helps greatly, But it is no substitute for human contact and friendship or a romantic relationship. Though I was very sick when I got here, I have worked hard to regain my looks and health, with medication and my doctor's help. Please help me figure out how to get this legal document because that would give me the peace of mind to rebuild my life while still caring for my father who is still fairly independent for the time being.