My dad, 87 years old, has had some worsening of his inguinal hernia. I mean really worsening. He can only wear sweatpants, no underwear. This thing is maybe halfway down his thigh. He doesn't want to see his doctor for anything at all. He's pretending this doesn't exist, especially to his daughter (me) but I want to know what suggestions to make to him. He doesn't care that I know this can be dangerous. Is anyone here dealing with this sort of thing? What do you suggest for clothes? How do you maintain your dignity with this terrible appearance?