Don't want to let mom know, only make her feel bad HELP! I can't seem to do anything with out getting snapped at. But with mom just loosing dad, I don't want her to know what has been said and done because it will only split the family apart. Mom's kids are all she has left but I am getting really tired of all the snipping and backbiting going on. When I let one of my sisters know how I disliked the way she had been treating me, she pulled the poor me I didn't do anything to deserve this. Mom bought it all and told me I had hurt my sisters feelings and I needed to apologize to her. I really didn't want to but I did because mom said so. I am 52 years old and I love my mom very much, if she says do it I will try too. (Mom is 80 years old) I just don't know what to do anymore. Mom needed help with dad so I did everything I could to help her. We laid dad to rest today and I told my sister I was sorry. That was hard to do because I didn't see any reason for me to tell her that when I was only telling her the truth about how she had been treating me. I am afraid they are going to railroad mom now that dad's gone but I don't know how to make her see that without being the bad daughter again. Sorry for the rambling - I really just needed an outlet for my feelings. Thanks for listening and God Bless you all!