This person first of all is in love with herself but does not think she is. She pretends to be humble for attention. Kind of sickening.
It’s not even that she means well. That I understand. Someone can be ignorant about something but totally sincere and genuine. They do truly mean well.
This is not the case with her. She loves to think of herself as the most caring person in the world but it is only to get recognition for herself. Very odd.
She calls and ask about my mom. I answer her. If I try to tell her how tired I am. She tells me not to feel that way because I am so lucky to still have my mom. Mom is 93, I am 63. I am tired!
Mind you, she hasn’t cared for her mom in a very long time. Her mom died 20 years ago but she acts like it was yesterday. Her mom wasn’t sick for long either before she died. Nor did her mom live with her. In other words, she didn’t have it nearly as tough as I have.
This woman is 80 and says she still wishes she had her mom to care for. YEAH, RIGHT!!!! And if you believe that I have a bridge I want to sell to you!
It’s the same thing over and over and I am sick of it. I stopped telling her that I was tired and she still says that I am so lucky to still have her. It’s a ridiculous comment in my opinion. She has never said to me that my mom was lucky to have me! I love my mom. Has nothing to do with love. I just think conversations shouldn’t be one sided, especially lop sided. Kind of annoying when she calls.
Give me some good responses please!