My DH has been in assisted living for 6 weeks and is slowly but surely acclimating as I am. Not a smooth road but I feel more rested and less stressed. When I ask the facility how often to visit, they say "whatever is best for you". What is best for him. I go every day but it is getting hard. I get the feeling that his response to me being there is sometimes not as appreciated as it was but I don't know if that is good or bad, maybe just my imagination. I don't know if I should keep going every day or should I go every other day or what. What has anyone who has done this decided is best for both of us. I am not sure if I do the right thing and I love him so much and miss him.
I wonder if I detract from him feeling at home there by my approximately 2 hour visits daily.