I care for my Mom who has heart disease, diabetes, mental illness and is a breast cancer survivor. She is becoming more and more argumentative and verbally abusive. She is also becoming physically abusive and tells my brothers that I am the one who is physically abusing her. I have NEVER layed a hand on her. I have been her F/T caregiver for almost 8 years without any help of support from my two brothers. Neither come to visit more than once a year. They don't think I should be compensated in any way because she is my mother and I should do it out of love. I am at my witts end and need some help. Any suggestions on how to get them to listen to my side of the story so I can get some help?