My grandma was very healthy 86 after a few infections and a long hospital stay she is in hospice. I brought her home two weeks ago, I have a sister that lives about 10 minutes away grandma raised yes both. Grandma and I share a house. We thought grandma only had a few days, as she wasn't eating or drinking in the hospital. She came home is drinking water pretty good and ice cream I make a high protein mixture. Prior to getting sick mentally competent. Luckily I have church people come over a few days a week so I can take a shower or go to the grocery store. My grandma just had a bif Bowen movemrnt thst went every where I had to cream it ou, she is bed ridden, mentally she us not with it any more she fought me the whole time then though I was a nurse at the hospital ans wanted to go home, ladt night she had a rough night up every hour so I got no sleep and where is my sister no where to be seen, I am tired smell horrible as u didn't do well with poop clean up, tired, barely eat I love my grandma and will make the end of her life the best I can, but how do some of you do it for years? How do you not hate family that doesn't help? My sister and I are close she has shown up for 30 minutes every few days. Once she did stay long enough fir me to take a shower and she acted like she was giving the best gift ever. I have list respect for her. When I mentioned to her about having to get up so much in the middle if the night how tired. Was she said well you want to gave a baby you have yo with them so you are getting use to it, my grandma was an amazing woman. Though during Christmas Day we got our Christmas miracle she was lucid.