I have been sole POA for 5 years, 4 Medicaid apps, constantly shifting caregivers due to my brothers alcoholic acting out (he & my mother own the house together), culminating in an emergency move to a nursing home when brother threatened to burn down the house & aides left. I want sister to take over financial management, but she says she can’t from 350 miles away. I believe she can, because it requires little in-person work at this point - can be done by mail, phone, fax, internet.
How do I show her how much work I’ve done? She seems to think it is easy.