My elderly mother lives with me. She recently announced that she wishes to move to another city, where my brother lives, and enter assisted living. I've learned from the assisted living facility that they aren't prepared to accept her (no finanical arrangement, no care plan, no application forms, etc). My brother is non responsive to pleas to explain his plan for her care. From mom, we've learned that he'll just 'put me in a hotel' until things are 'sorted out'. She has critical health needs, is seeing multiple doctors, has multiple medications and can't be left alone for long periods. I know that my brother, who has very small children, and works, won't be with her for extended periods. How do I keep her from entering this situation? Both she and my brother seem to have no realistic appraisal of the risk. She states, "Everyone has to die somewhere." Help, what do I do? She plans to leave in a few days.