Shower time is a tug of war for both my mother and me! I have resorted to giving her "bird baths" but that does not resolve washing her hair. She refuses to have a CNA bathe her as she does not want a stranger giving her a bath. I suffer from back pain and sometimes just find it easier to give in. But I know she needs to be washed due to hygienic purposes. I do have a bath chair for her but would appreciate any feedback offered to reduce the stress for both of us. Thank you.