How do you handle a Father when out of the blue nobody cares, complains about siblings we're all bad kids etc What do you do or say? He no longer drives and asked my retired brother if he would take him around the old farms and to see his sister that is an hour away. Brother did not reply, so dad informs me that none of us care and we will do whatever we want to do...this is a small sample...one other thing that he gets very angry about is our mothers funeral from 2 1/2 yrs ago that he was left alone and it all went wrong? the other is nobody tells him what is going on that he is not included? I see him face to face 5 days a week, 3 sons see him a couple of days a week. We all call daily. I take him once a month (if I can get time off of work)to his sisters town to see her and to go to an accordion playing group. I have walked away, I have screamed back, I have mention the times we spend together. Which all give me a guilty feeling!