All my dad does when I visit him in the Care Home is complain. It’s making it harder and harder to see him with a happy attitude. He’s an 85 year old vet who up until a 14mo ago was independent and still driving. Now due to years of bad eating and not taking care of his health he’s confined to a wheelchair. I get it, he’s angry now he has to rely on others to change his diapers, transfer him, etc. I’ve been trying, now his visits are getting shorter and shorter. I don’t want to sit there and hear the same complaints over and over. Is this a part of dementia? I’ve started changing the subject when I can’t take it and it seems to work and then I make my exit. I love my dad, but he stresses me out.