I am the youngest(50) of 5 kids. I have been taking care of my mom for years without any help. Siblings rarely call, visit once or twice a year for a brief visit (1-4 days) to entertain mom and often ignore or neglect her medical needs when they visit leaving me with a mess when they leave. She ended up hospitalized after Christmas visit. I am a single mom with a child and I have a job and a home of my own. We have had to live in my moms house with her for over a year because she can no longer be alone at all because of dementia. What this has meant was my child not having his home, pets (which we can't bring to moms house). We have to go back and forth and check on house several times a day, and take our clothes etc back and forth. It's like we don't live anywhere. Someone tried to break in my house while I was gone, now I am walking back and forth and leaving car there. I have had to drop out of everything that I was doing that I enjoyed and I have had to take my son out of all of his sports and activities as well because it is too difficult and unpredictable to take mom with us. I have to take her to work with me. I have missed a tremendous amount of work and have no paid leave. My siblings do whatever they want. Their children lack nothing, go on vacations, play sports, have normal lives. NONE of the sisters or sisters in law work but do as they wish with their time. I have tried to maintain a positive attitude, but it has become unbearably hard. I feel I am neglecting my son and that his childhood is flying by without the normal experiences he should be having. When I try to make him a priority and take him anywhere I feel like I am abusing my mom who sits there unhappy or with her eyes closed or gets afraid or confused or angry because she doesn't understand what is going on. I feel exhausted, depressed and have even battled with increase in physical ailments. I tried to hire someone to help but mom is afraid of any stranger and I could never even let the woman come in the house. I am not the power of attorney. The family's desire is that mom be kept at home, and I agree but I am the only one making that happen. I feel like it has all been dumped on me and I can't do it anymore. I am becoming increasingly resentful about the sacrifices that I and especially my son make daily. I am resentful of siblings carefree life and texts of vacation pictures when I couldn't even take my son to the pool. So if the Bible says ' do all things without murmuring or complaining' and to honor my mother and I am doing all these things but with resentment and murmuring and complaining - am I really honoring her at all? She sacrificed everything to care for us. She was a model amazing mom. She deserves to be cared for perfectly, and I feel guilty for complaining. She can't help her situation. Is there an answer?