I have opened my home to my elderly mom. She’s been living with me going on three years now. My question is this. Am I supposed to ask my siblings if it’s okay if she spends the holidays at one of their homes? They live in Texas and Mississippi. There were two other options Tennessee and Georgia but those two siblings are in a rough place financially right now. But, before I committed to caring for my mom they all did say they will help in anyway that they can but, they haven’t done a thing. It’s so weird too especially since they are older siblings. It’s like wow do I really have to ask? I would be thrilled if they called and be like we want mama to come spend Christmas with us. They haven’t done anything. So, I’m here to ask fellow caregivers if I should make a group chat and ask the both at the same time. Or should I call them individually? Or just wait til they offer?