I have been a caregiver for my MIL who is in her 6 phase of dementia The problem is my SIL who is 48 years old and has lived with her and son who is also mentally ill. The past 6 months my SIL has been in and out of mental facilities due to her behavior. She flips out screaming, swearing, throwing things. We have called 911 5 times where she was removed and placed. My BIL keeps letting her back in the house even tho he knows himself that she is a danger to not us but to others. This last time he allowed her back. Well within the next 3 days she started again. I told my BIL I can not keep doing this. It's not good for his mother or him. Everyone has to walk on eggshells when she's around. The county office had placement for her this last time but he refused say he'd give her one more chance. This will never end. This past week she called me everything but a white woman. So I told my BIL I can't do this anymore. So I quit.
Just worried about my MIL. She's so sweet and neither of them know how to take care of her. All my husband and I can do is wish them well. Bottom line (she needs to be placed in a group home) Everyone has babied her all her life.
Also my BIL has mental issues also. Been crazy!!