Shes 96 she broke her hip a few mths ago, shes in a nursing home and has completed rehab, she was to go home Sept 1 but since the "waiver" hasn't gone thru yet my mom & siblings can't afford private care. When the waiver goes thru she will have set hours which the state will pay for. Her home & the home shes at now are different counties therefore we are at a stand still beczoz there can't be 2 open cases in different counties. My Mom has non hodgkins Lymp. and is the "main" caregiver as the other 2 siblings are a distance away. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to get passed this problem with the 2 counties? Is it not sad enough that my Gma & Gpa worked all their lives that "welfare" will take what we have used for her care when she passes away and have to sale her house- but just being on welfare and never working it doesn't have to be paid back. What is wrong with this system? My Gma was evaluated & she really needs 24 hr care, my mom does not want her put in AL as she wants her to live out the remainder of her life in her home where she'd be happy. Please, if you have any advice with the 2 county things I'd love to hear about it.