Well I just wrote a novel about my abusive narcissistic mother, the extremes she goes to, all her threats to report me for elder abuse. She told me she would report me for elder abuse if I made any attempt to get her to leave, she said she is not leaving under any circumstances and if I try she will report me for elder abuse and has already looked into it. How I pay for her car and all the maintenance, how I pay her credit card which is in the thousands, how she lives under my roof for free and how proud she is to be vindictive and vengeful. She is completely irrational so no sitting down and talking to her. He favorite saying: "I like my pound of flesh" I also said how she burned my father's (who was adopted) his natural birth certificate and all his childhood photos and then I hit "send" and this sites server crashed. I am too tired and too stressed out to try and type it all over. Bottom line I want her out. Because of her threats I am afraid. I have a nice home and good career and don't want to jeopardize it. She tells me I can't have friends over or get a boyfriend. She literally told me that if she left I would start crying and beg her to come back. She's 72 and believes all the men want her. She is also fond of saying; "I am God's Gift to everyone" she has always been abusive but now its at another level. Here in TN they live for their; "mama's and daddies" she would have a lot of support. I put nothing past her, she would do anything to get back at me or hurt me...…. anything. Help.