My mom has aIzhiehmer/dementia, I have power of attorney but seem to get no where with it. I have been talking to adult protective service, attorney's, police, no one can seem to help me. I cannot afford conservatorship and my brother has taken over her checking account and put his wife's name on my moms bank acct. My brother is a methadone user n I believe is still using heroine. They do not let me have any contact with my mom, I feel they have brain washed my mom they r always telling her horrible things about me, they told my mom I called the cops on her and that I called ADPS on my mom and now my mom is upset with me, I called police on my brother for threats he made to me n my family if I try to go get my mom. Theres so much more to this story I feel trapped and lost, I have always been very close to my mom and always a part of her life. He has never really been much in her life for the past 15/20 yrs and now that she has memory loss he has come to take her, my children and grandkids r so emotionally hurt over all this, they are very close to my mom. My mom has been gone now for 6 months n her weight had declined tremendously and now she is going blind in one eye. Pleading for HELP!