My mom moved in with me and she has been become very argumentive. Whenever there is a change or something is not going her way, she becomes very argumentive. She has no balance and must hold onto the walls, furniture, us, to get from one place to another. We have brought in a walker she insist she does not need a walker. My husband has been with her helping everyday for three months and just went back to work. I want to bring in somebody to be with her but she will not hear of it. She calls people on the phone daily and leaves messages sometime up to 10 phone calls per day. I have no poa and no guardianship, how do I get her to accept somebody to come into the home. I am exhausted from her unhappiness and controlling ways. I think she has dementia, but she refuses to go to a doctor to be looked at. Can I just take her and have her evaluated for dementia? I am so tired.