For over 3 1/2 years my brother has prevented me from seeing or speaking to my mom. I was caring for her in her home across the street from me for over 2 years. She is almost 99 & has had dementia for about 5 years now.
APS wouldn’t do anything until I told them she wasn’t safe in her home since she couldn’t get out by herself in an emergency. He moved a woman into her home who had gotten evicted from her trailer park just to say someone was there.
In December brother had a gathering at mom’s with 4 different households. 3 days later a rescue came for my mother....she got covid.
After a month in the hospital she was sent to a nursing home where she’s been ever since. The woman still lives in my mother’s home with all the bills still in my moms name.
I called an agency last week called Alliance For Better Long Term Care & explained my situation. Nursing home told me all visits had to be approved by brother.
This agency called them & I’m finally going to be allowed to see my mom! Brother flipped out & told them there was a no contact order against me for abuse which he’s been telling everyone for the past few years......none of which is true.
I don’t know what’s going to happen next because he’s now threatening to get guardianship. He had mom sign all new documents 3 years ago when she had dementia & I know she didn’t know what she was signing......she trusted him. Unlimited DPOA, amended trust to benefit him 100%.