Mom and I have a good and trusting relationship. Occasionally, usually before I must leave for the evening before finishing our typical evening routine, she will do something she has previously known is unhealthy or not good, such as reusing a soiled washcloth, or trying to take the wrong meds. I admit, she does something that she knows is a trigger. Many of her behaviors are out of forgetfulness and they are handled calmly, with dignity. She has some age-related decline, but is generally pretty with it and I talk to her as an adult. I'm just sure she "tests the boundaries". What have you done in these instances?