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Mom, 93, past strokes and recent seizure has mom talking to grandkids about going home and being fed. What do I do?

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Hallucinations are actually visual images that a person sees that aren't actually there. So if the kids are actually there and she's talking to them then it's not hallucinations. I'm not sure if it could be called delusions either, maybe just confusion or possible episodes of dementia. It could simply be that she wants to go home and have something to eat. She may be reliving a memory. I would talk to her doctor and I would also talk to her , go along with what she's saying don't argue or disagree. It may help you and her doctor to determine what's going on.
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My Grandparents talked about 'going home'. Other older/very unwell people have talked to me about going home too. Some have even specified 'the big home' or 'the big upstairs'. Home can mean heaven.

Or just where you are loved & comfortable.

Tell you will feed her. Tell her she is loved.
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Has your mom been evaluated for VaD? Strokes are a major cause of the disease. "Give it time" is a very inappropriate response by her neuro. I would seek another dr for evaluation. Hallucinations and/or delusions are not a consequence of old age.

Hallucinations are problems with sensory issues- seeing things that aren't there (often children), erroneously hearing, feeling, tasting, or smelling things.

Delusions are believing somethings that isn't real, e.g.' believing someone is stealing from you or believing your deceased parent is going to visit you.
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Neurologist says past strokes, recent seizure and age to give it time. But she's still talking to walls, etc. How much time?
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I am so sorry. What does her doctor say about her situation?
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