I am in desperate need of help myself. My mother lives in her own home and refuses to move out but needs help more and more all the time because of early Dementia, arthritis and other problems and she cannot drive anymore. I quit my job and moved in with her, I have spent all my savings paying my own bills and now I am completely broke. She is very well off but because she pays the bills for house and food she says I deserve nothing else. I gave up my life and my future for her and really need help to continue doing this. Is there any help, she refuses to help me.