Hey all! So here's the scoop- my grandma (83 years old) recently had gotten the stomach flu from my dad (which is VERY unsympathetic and rough with her if he helps her at all), fell trying to go to the bathroom on her own, and broke her pelvis (or hip?) I called her head nurse anonymously while she was hospitalized and strongly suggested that they put her in a rehab otherwise she will not try to walk on her own, they sent her home anyways. She doesn't eat hardly a cup of food a day (she says she just never hungry) and doesn't drink much water either, she woke up at 1:30am after being sent home, she was throwing up and had severe diarrhea again, I just need some sort of opinion on how to help her because she doesn't even want nurses coming in the house to help her with PT, I cannot talk to my dad about what to do because he's more worried about $$ than her and he might kick me out (I live in his basement) if I go against his word. I'm just at the point where I'm trying to figure out my life (I'm 19), clean my dad's entire house after her being sick (because he refuses to), help my grandma 24/7 all at the same time and it feels like I'm the only one worried about her..
ANY help is appreciated!!! 😣