My grandma has serious problem. She lost her leg & has heart failure & is urinating everywhere! There’s nothing wrong with her mind at all she just physically broke down. She won’t shower correctly or let someone help her shower. She stays in one soaked depend all day & will continue to leak pee all over. She stays in the kitchen all day so our kitchen floor smells & is soiled. Even when we cook or are trying to clean she’ll park herself in the middle of the kitchen & insists she’s not in the way & won't move. Our whole house stinks! We can no longer have company over or breathe comfortably in our own home. We can’t say anything because it’s extremely disrespectful in her eyes. She goes in everyone else's personal space leaving pee there. We have carpet. She gets offended when we light candles or open widows. She is extremely rude & is convinced that we’re all going to hell. There’s no filter on what comes out of her mouth. She doesn’t have dementia or Alzheimer’s. Her doctors have given her orders of no soda & only one liter of fluids a day but she drinks a 2 liter soda & tea & juice & water everyday which is making her urine stronger. She refuses to get catheterized & her kidneys are about to shut down. We’ve lost all hope & basically our home. No one else will take her & she won’t go to a home.