My wife’s father has been diagnosed with dementia and is a barely functioning alcoholic. His flat is squalid and he is not properly looking after himself. He increasingly is becoming a liability to himself and others in the house (split into 4 separate flats) that he lives in. He drinks about a bottle of brandy a night and is going to bed loving food cooking and at risk of causing a fire. He has only just been diagnosed with dementia so is in the early stages of it. He is in complete denial about the dementia and the alcoholism.
How do we get him into a care home given the alcoholism? He has a limited amount of savings and some pensions.