No one will believe me! I know she's getting dementia. All the relatives just see her very occasionally and always when she's at her "shiniest".
She's like the "elder hero" of the family. 91, so perky, living independently... and all this is a lie. She refuses to use walker, cane as advised by doc. Refuses to get hearing aid deaf in one ear and getting worse.
Her doc has a huge ego, have been advised not to tell the doc as she'll tell Mom - yes even though its illegal.
She also tells tales about me to them to make me look bad, or immature, looks like for years now.
This woman needs to be in a facility, and she just says she'll move in with me when its time.
Does anyone know where I can turn? Only kid here, shame of it is I've never felt lonely, ever, til now.
She's even set the house not to automatically go to me when she dies, but to whomever she wants. I promise you all I've been a good daughter. Nothing else would be acceptable.