I've been living with my parents for about two years. It wasnt by choice, my husband started using drugs and I had nowhere else to go. We were married for over thirty years and have two grown children I have two older sisters that both live close by. They want me out of here. I don't know why except their both control freaks. My dad took me aside and practically begged me to stay and help with my mom. My dad had a talk with them and set them straight, saying he needs my help with mom. Not just running errands but cooking and cleaning and taking care of my mom. She can really be a handful, diagnosed with dementia. She throws temper tantrums and accuses my dad of liking me more than her. Her memory is shot, perfect example , we are standing in line at Walmart and something set her off(it doesn't take much) she starts yelling at me for her spending too much money! When she gets like that all I can do is just agree with her to calm her down , but it's very trying. Getting back to my sisters, they don't step up to the plate, they may come by once a week for half an hour. Everything is left up to me. Their both retired and has no one to answer to. Now, my sisters and I don't even speak. They do not appreciate me AT ALL.i have cut all ties with them. If they come over I just excuse myself and go to my room. My parents are very upset regarding us girls not getting along. I don't mind being civil, but that's it. Nothing more. They do not appreciate me and all I do for our parents. How can I make them understand I just want what's best for mom and dad.? Offer to take me out to lunch, go shopping, anything to give me a break . They have never offered, but the two of them are like two peas in a pod. They do everything together but don't extend the offer to me. I have become so bitter. They don't have a clue what I do around here. Any suggestions of shaking some sense into them? I'm desperate and frustrated. In tears right now, I'm so depressed.