My father is in stage 4 kidney failure needing dialysis ASAP. He also has various other issues, he is abusive (emotionally, mentally) to his wife, and children refuses to go to hospital as recommended by his primary care physician and nephrologist. How can we get help for him and his wife?? His mental health is very poor, he has high level anxiety, and depression, as well as heightened anger. He needs help ASAP!!! But refuses to allow family to intervene.