My husband is currently in Florida visiting his mother , who lives alone and has secluded herself in her condo to the point of craziness. She does not open any windows , blinds or doors for fear of someone looking in on a third floor condo! She hears drilling and noises all night and thinks they have put speakers in all her walls to hear what she's doing ,...? She will no longer use the bedrooms to sleep in and sleeps on the couch.(the drilling isn't quite as loud) Watches tv all day on mute so the neighbors won't hear. She has lost a lot of weight and doesn't seek medical advice or help for anything. She can barely breathe and takes small short breathes. Just walking around the condo is too much.
Now , my brother in law lives in same area and has had no success and now my husband is attempting to get her to go to a doctor. The appointment is tomorrow and she is threatening to kick him out and calling all relatives.
What is the best way of handling a situation like this. We have been through 4 trying years with my dad having Alzheimer's and know none of this is easy. But any suggestions would be appreciated.