I have four and if they would only visit one long weekend a year i would get a break. I have given up my condo and job to care for my elderly parents in our family home. I recently asked my out of state siblings to come out one weekend a year so i could get a break from the 24/7 every few months. The reception was chilly, with only one coming once a year for a week and another who would like to come, but never has the funds, it costs me a fortune, and she is disabled and emotionally unstable herself. When a sibling who is more concerned with her inheritance than my parents care and has not spent more than a fe hours with them in many years asked how I was doing, i let her know ow hard it was, how our parents needed her company as well and how much I needed the occasional break, The email went unanswered. I am at my wits end, and getting very resentful towards my siblings.