Mom and Dad both have major health issues. Both have insisted in protecting the other until I had to call 911 on them both because they were that bad. Mom just got out of the hospital yesterday and was transferred to a post acute care center. Dad is still at the hospital and will never make it home, he is very short on time. Dad has to get his affairs in order and also still needs to tell Mom he’s dying. The only reason I know how bad Dad is is because I was point of contact when the ER found out that the other parent was also in the ER. Any suggestions on how to get Dad to tell mom and my brothers (and me) before he dies?