My 93 year old mom lives with my brother. Due to swallowing problems she only takes ensure. juice, and water. She will not drink well for him, she also will not get up and walk around in the house for exercise, she just sits in her chair or lays in her bed When I am there she will drink what I give her and will walk through the house with me. I use the approach of here is some juice for you to drink now, and I say here's your cane let's take a walk through the house. The minute I leave she goes back to just sitting there. What can I do to get her to listen to him?