My father is suffering from congestive heart failure, prostate cancer, osteoarthritis of the hips (he's in a wheelchair), and suffers from incontinence due to kidney failure.He is 88 years old. My mother who is 87 yrs. old is finding it hard to care for him. They own a home and Dad receives a small pension and social security. What do we need to do to get him into a nursing facility and will they take his pension and social security if they cannot afford to pay?