I feel like I've been carrying the load, trying to care enough for her lack of caring for herself, but I can't do it anymore, it hurts too much. I feel so guilty. I just want her to move out of my house so I don't have to hurt anymore. She can take care of herself to some extent, but she refuses. So, then she just expects that I should do everything. I just can't do it anymore. She's on depression medication, but it doesn't seem to matter. She's agreed to move out into an apartment, so she can live the life she wants to live. I feel so guilty.