My husband lives with his parents and takes care of them. His mom has Alzheimer's. She hasn't left the house in 8 months and he couldn't get her out for a doctor's appointment (which I recommended he make, because his mom's condition is getting worse, including falling down and hitting her head, swallowing difficulties, and other things). Mainly, I'm curious what, if anything, has worked for other people. If I suggest anything to my husband, he says I'm being judgmental.