So the VA Memory Disorder unit was not as scary as I thought. Husband just told Dad he had an appointment and Dad actually went without a fight. We were asked to go to a separate room to fill out a questionnaire while he was seen. Then got together again. Dad was not happy about the Dr. saying he has early dementia, blames it all on his hearing troubles. Refused brain scan and Life Alert, said ok to blood test. Luckily he is in Senior Housing with cords to pull for help for now. Waiting for more info to be mailed to me about help. Now what? He refuses to accept any of this. How to convince him he needs help?