Dad is in ga i live in ky and there putting him in home and trying to take his stuff. I am his only son and i do not know what to do my time is running short
Well the last time my dad lived with him he ended up in a hospice and yhis time a icu for noy bathing an not taking meds told the he using dads money to pay his rent jis son using dads truck for wat ever he wants and i sould love himto be moved up here so i can take care of him an have him here an my aunt he was living with before my grandpa passed recently said she would live here an help to
Does your Uncle and his girlfriend live in Georgia near your Dad and they are helping take care of him? Did your Dad live with them, or has your Dad been living on his own? Who has been caring for him? Taking him to doctor appointments? Getting his groceries? Maintaining his home? Apparently his health is to a point where he needs 24-hour care and the best place would be in a continuing care facility.
Do you wish to have your Dad move to Kentucky so that you can care for him? Are you able to do that? How would you handle 24-hour care? You'd be doing the work of three trained professionals. Or hiring Caregivers to help your Dad.
As for taking his stuff, your Dad wouldn't need everything in his home if he will be living in a care facility. What should the Uncle do with your father's personal items, furniture, etc? Do you want it? You might want to spend some time talking with your Uncle and actually visiting with them to learn more about what is going on.
Do you wish to have your Dad move to Kentucky so that you can care for him? Are you able to do that? How would you handle 24-hour care? You'd be doing the work of three trained professionals. Or hiring Caregivers to help your Dad.
As for taking his stuff, your Dad wouldn't need everything in his home if he will be living in a care facility. What should the Uncle do with your father's personal items, furniture, etc? Do you want it? You might want to spend some time talking with your Uncle and actually visiting with them to learn more about what is going on.