Don't feel guilty, go and unwind. I go away as much as possible. Fortunately, my sibling agreed to stay with mom since he wasn't working. I really enjoyed myself and didn't worry too much. It is good for YOU!
I'm planning a trip to Florida with my son for either October, November or January. He is turning 17 next month. I love taking trips with him. I'd like to plan to go for at least 7 or 8 nights.
I just went on a trip for the first time in 3 years. I previously tried to have my siblings take over care for our mom, but they never could work it out with their schedules(?). I needed to take a trip for my husband, so this time I engaged the services of a care group and friend, along with my daughters. It was hard for me to not feel guilty, but I did it! All went well, the world didn't end and I'm ready the next get away..... My advice, make your plans, get good help, and relax! :)
I understand completely! But take advantage of a long vacation if you can! Try not to think of you not being there, just relax and know your loved one is fine and you will be to :) Have fun
Remember, you have to take just as good care of yourself as well as your parent, probably better care of YOU!
Have fun! .... lucky you!