I care for my father-in-law. This man means the world to me and when he became ill I did not hesitate for one second and knew that I would stay home and care for him. Sadly, he has a daughter who visits every 2-3 months and a son who checks in more frequently... 2-3 times a week but doesn't stay longer than 10 min. The rest is up to my husband and myself mainly since I quit my job to care for him full time. My struggle is how do I address the fact that he is telling me what his "will" is. I know that there is one written and his daughter has it but its been written many years ago and its outdated. The man really doesn't have much, a small life insurance policies and some cash from a savings acct which he chose to keep it at home and monies from another savings acct which his daughter closed and placed in a CD acct. As you can all imagine they are going to be ready and available very quick when we speak money terms, right? I'd really appreciate your insite.