My husband and I are living in a one bedroom flat whilst house hunting for our dream home. My father in law moved in 6 months ago after a stroke. He sleeps in a bed in our living room and most of his clothing is in drawers in my bedroom due to lack of space. He sleeps at very unusual times - he can be awake all night and sleep till 7pm which means we cant use the living room. Or he will go to sleep at 6pm and wake up at 1am. He used to sit in his underwear and not get dressed and even done this when a physiotherapist came!! I have seen him naked as he walks to and from the bathroom with no clothes on, however my husband has told hom that it isnt acceptable and he does this less. He comes into my bedroom when my husband goes out to get some of his clothes. The other morning my husband went out and I had just woken up, he left my bedroom door open and I could hear funny noises - his father was watching pornography and masturbating in the living room with the door open, knowing fine well I was home myself!!! I havent told my husband about the masturbating but I have said that I feel uncomfortable and dont want him around. His hygiene is poor and has showered twice since he has been here, even though we have gotten him bathing aids, he leaves faeces in the toilet and doesnt flush or change his clothing/underwear despite asking for his laundry. All he does all day long is watch television and smoke cigarettes even though we have tried to encourage him to do other activities. Ifeel as though he needs to be in assisted living or a residential home but my husband says that his father is fine at the moment and if he starts having problems with incontinence then we will talk about finding him elsewhere to live. He says that he cant throw his father out. What do I do in this situation? Obviously I dont want to leave my husband but I feel very uncomfortable and uneasy in my own home and cant look his father in the eye anymore.