Currently taking care of my 87 yo father in law who is smitten with 75 yo lady who along with her now deceased husband have a history of preying on elder people who have $ or properties and are on or near death.
Since my FIL is having difficulties with his thinking we can’t convince him she is not gonna be good for him. Everything we have learned is that we cannot do anything unless he is found incompetent to make decisions that directly affect his care or lack there of. Seems he is free to just continue to make bad choices in this lady’s favor and that unless a crime is committed there isn’t anything we can do. We both quit or jobs and closed a business to take care of him and are facing financial hardships because of this. His will is made out and we knew it was the right thing to do and eventually would be reimbursed. But now it looks like this lady can just move right in and take everything. Wondering if there is any case out there and what you did to get rid of such a person?