I cut him off I posted that before and he didn't call me for 2 weeks
called to check in to make sure he was alive
he asked about Christmas I said no we aren't doing anything, he asked if we could go out to eat I said no
he also said my sister is supposed to get some results from some tests
anyway he accepted my answers whether or not that had to do with my sister I don't care, it was a nice change, I won't contact him again for a few months or ever

