My Mom is on oxygen and unable to walk very far. About 4 years ago I moved her into our home. My wife resents my Mom's presence. I know this is not the ideal for any of us but I am doing the best I can. This is particularly hard for me as I have helped raise my wife's kids as my own. I love my wife but I don't understand her. She complains at anything I do for my mom and stops short of insulating that I have an unhealthy attachment to my Mom. I am sick of the complaints about my Mom about my siblings lack of involvement (which is somewhat justified). What my wife doesn't see is that I still love her but the constant complaining from her is killing that love. I feel guilty because I long for the day that I am free of the responsibility of caring for mom AND free from this woman that is killing what feelings I have left for her. If it weren't for my kids, I would take Mom somewhere else and walk away from this fiasco.