She has dementia. We live with my mom who has dementia. She has always been the best mom ever. Unconditional love. Now she doesn't know she is in her own home. Asks me to take her home. Gets frustrated if I go anywhere with out her. Which I very seldom do because I know it makes her unhappy. I always make sure my son or husband stays with her. I work at the school so I am off with her all summer. My sister wathe s her 2 days a week and son in law 2 days which always falls one to figure out when they can't do it. I've even had to take days off work to cover. I know I sound like a selfish person but I'm really not. Mom argues with me alot. Most of the time I can let it go. I went on a 4 day vacation a few weeks ago with my family. I had do much grief from my sister telling me that she was never doing this again and said mom kept trying to call me on store phones. I felt horrible. I would do anything for my mom and I just always feel guilty when she gets upset. Thanks for having you all to talk to.