I am a co-caregiver of both parents in a multigenerational household. Despite intentions otherwise, the other caregiver is unable to “give care” most of the time. I do not have to be here. I have my own home. Yet I came to help. Explanations are many as to why caregiving cannot be a priority for them. Yet. If I was not here life would go on and verrrrrry basic caregiving would happen. I am torn.
Is that what’s going on?