Well, Dad has aways had an anger issue but now my husband has stared yelling me. This morning I was going to address them together but I awoke with a migrane. Dad is still trying to run a 200 acre ranch with little success. When I do give into him and help him with a repair, he yells at me and blames me for all that goes wrong. Now I noticed that my retired husband as started losing his temper with me over little things. I took the week off of work to work around the house but every time I asked my husband, he has yelled at me. I have spent more time with lately and tried to seperate myself from my fathers affairs only to find myself in a simular situation with my husband. What do have to do? Tell them both at the same time or seperate to stop taking their frustrations out on me?