He is independent and abusive. He doesn't require my help with most things, but he seems to have a very short fuse and is angry most of the time. Everyone seems to keep their distance now and there just isn't much life for us. I go to work daily and try to be patient, but I'm not holding up very well and feel like he is very unhappy - he tells me that being back in a relationship with me is the worst his life as ever been. (we were previously together, separated for many years and married ten years ago). Should I leave?